Are you planning to elope in the Outer Banks? YAY! Outer Banks (OBX) is an absolutely incredible backdrop for elopements with its beaches, historic lighthouses, and charming coastal vibes. Whether you’re dreaming of exchanging your vows with your toes in the sand or next to the iconic lighthouses, there’s something for everyone here!

As a North Carolina elopement photographer, in this Outer Banks elopement guide, I will walk you through everything you need to know to plan your day in this breathtaking location. Let’s get into it!

Why Elope in Outer Banks?

Outer Banks is a dream destination for all couples who want an intimate, relaxed wedding day, especially with beach vibes. Often, you may think of California or Florida when imagining a beach elopement, but the Outer Banks is an AMAZING alternative.

There are endless beaches, dramatic dunes, and picturesque ocean views. But not only that, here you’ll also find charming villages and beach towns – there are so many places to visit and things to do! Plus, you can get as adventurous as you’d like to. From kayaking and kiteboarding to strolling along quaint coastal streets, there’s something for every vibe!

Best Time for Your Outer Banks Elopement

The Outer Banks is a great elopement destination all year round. Being next to the Gulf Stream, it is a bit cooler than other locations during the summers, and it’s also nice and warm during the winters. Overall, the best time of year for your elopement in OBX will depend on the kind of vibes you envision for your day.

Spring

Spring in the OBX is wonderful. The temperatures are rising, and flowers are blooming everywhere! The area comes back to life around Easter after slowing down during the off-season. By late spring, you can expect highs ranging from the mid-60s to the low 70s. While early mornings might still have a chill, the gentle ocean breeze, and the quiet beaches more than make up for it.

Summer

Summer in OBX brings in the crowds but also amazing beach weather as the temps soar into the 80s. This is the perfect season if you love long, sunny days and the lively beach town atmosphere. 

But again, peak tourist season brings all the crowds, so consider a work day and sunrise ceremony to escape the busiest times. Also, book accommodations early to avoid summer price hikes and to be able to book a nice location in the first place.

Fall

Fall is arguably the best time of year for an Outer Banks elopement. The weather remains warm, hovering in the 70s in September and gradually cooling down as the season progresses. The summer crowds have thinned, and the sunsets are absolutely breathtaking.

With the crowds leaving, fall is a bit more affordable than summer, and you’ll have a better choice of accommodations. Plus, this is the best time for windsurfing and kiteboarding if you’re into that kind of thing!

Winter

Winter in the Outer Banks is quiet and peaceful. With cooler temperatures ranging from the mid-40s to mid-50s, the beaches are nearly empty, offering a peaceful and intimate setting. It’s an ideal time for cozy beach house vibes and elopements that focus on just the two of you. 

If you’re planning for a winter elopement somewhere nice and warm enough, this is THE place! Some local spots may be closed during the off-season, but there should still be plenty of places to visit!

Best Outer Banks Elopement Locations

Outer Banks is a treasure trove of breathtaking elopement locations, offering everything from pristine beaches to historic lighthouses. Whether you’re dreaming of a barefoot ceremony at the shore or maybe somewhere in sand dunes, there are plenty of options for you.

Beaches

• Cape Hatteras National Seashore: Spanning over 70 miles of untouched coastline, Cape Hatteras offers a wild and rugged setting for your elopement. Picture saying your vows against a backdrop of rolling dunes and crashing waves. Keep in mind that a special use permit is required for ceremonies here, whether it’s for an elopement or a slightly larger wedding day. You can learn more about the permits here!
  
  
• Duck Beach: This upscale beach town is known for its quieter, more private beaches. While Duck Beach tends to be less touristy, it’s a good idea to plan your elopement during off-peak hours, like early morning or sunset, to ensure privacy. Duck Beach also requires a permit, and you can learn more about it here!
  
  
• Kitty Hawk Beach: A classic choice with expansive sandy shores and easy access to amenities. This beach can get busy during peak summer months, so consider a weekday or off-season elopement for a more intimate experience. As far as I am aware, Kitty Hawk doesn’t require an elopement permit, but it will require one for events with 50 people or more. Always double-check this information, though, because requirements can change very quickly!
  

Beach Houses

You’ll likely be looking for a place to stay in OBX when you’re planning your elopement here. Consider renting a beach house for your stay, especially if you’re planning to take a full vacation and are considering bringing some loved ones with you. The coastal-style homes with large windows, which let in natural light, are gorgeous for indoor photos as you’re getting ready. Having a nice Airbnb or VRBO is a good option for your elopement day in case of bad weather, too!

Look for homes that offer spacious decks with ocean views and maybe even direct beach access. There are plenty of options out there, but make sure you check all the reviews!

Lighthouses

• Bodie Island Lighthouse: With its classic black-and-white stripes and surrounding marshland, this lighthouse offers a serene and picturesque backdrop. The wooden walkways and observation decks provide amazing elopement photo opportunities. While not overly touristy, mornings or weekdays are best for a quieter experience. You will need an elopement permit to get married at the Lighthouse, and you can learn more about it here!
  
• Cape Hatteras Lighthouse: This is the tallest brick lighthouse in the U.S.! The sweeping views of the Atlantic Ocean and the surrounding dunes are unmatched. Due to its popularity, this location can get busy, so planning an early ceremony or visiting during the offseason is recommended. A permit is required for elopement at this site. At the moment, this Lighthouse is undergoing restoration, so it’s not possible to get married here just yet, but follow along with their progress here, and I’ll be following updates too to keep you in the loop!
  
• Currituck Beach Lighthouse: Located in Corolla, this striking red-brick lighthouse is surrounded by lush greenery and boasts panoramic views of the coast. The area is generally less crowded, but it’s best to check ahead for hours and accessibility, as they definitely close during adverse weather. You need to reserve the location ahead of time for your ceremony, but the grounds will remain for the public, regardless, too.
  

Jockey’s Ridge State Park

The Jockey Ridge State Park is home to the largest natural sand dunes on the East Coast, creating a unique and dramatic landscape for your elopement. The dunes’ golden hues during sunset are absolutely magical. Keep in mind that the sand can get hot during summer, so opt for early morning or evening ceremonies and bring plenty of water.

To inquire about your elopement permit, you’ll need to contact the park beforehand at jockeys.ridge@ncparks.gov 

Bonus Spot: Manteo

Just across the bridge from the Outer Banks, Manteo is a charming small town with cobblestone streets, cute shops, and a picturesque waterfront. The Elizabethan Gardens and Roanoke Island Festival Park are must-visit spots for stunning photos. There are also more than a dozen places to dine, as well as a brewery and rum distillery. There is so much to see and do, and it’s a beautiful, historic, and quaint elopement destination.

Outer Banks Elopement Permits

Depending on your chosen OBX elopement location, you will need to get an elopement or special use permit. While I mentioned them above as well, here is an overview for you!

• Cape Hatteras National Seashore: A special use permit is required for any wedding or elopement on the seashore. Applications should be submitted at least four weeks in advance, and the permit covers most beaches and some lighthouses in the national seashores.
  
• State Parks: Ceremonies at state parks, like Jockey’s Ridge State Park, may require permits depending on the size of your gathering. Contact the park office directly to confirm their policies and any associated fees. 
  
• Public Beaches: Many public beaches in the Outer Banks don’t require permits for small elopements, but it’s a good idea to check with the town or municipality to confirm local regulations, especially if you were hoping to set up decorations or chairs.

Elopement Day Activities

There are so many fun things to do at Outer Banks to make your day unique and personal.

• Charter a boat and enjoy the Outer Banks from the water. I recommend Coastal Sols! They offer sailing cruises along with food options!
• Set up a cozy picnic on the beach with your favorite snacks and a bottle of champagne. The picnic from the featured elopement pics was set up by OBX Picnic Co., and I highly recommend them, too!
• Visit the lighthouses!
• Go kayaking or paddleboarding to add adventure to your day.
• Go fishing.
• Check out the Elizabethan Gardens.
• Go play some golf at one of the seven golf courses in the OBX area!
• Have a relaxing visit at the spa.
• Go on one of the tours—they offer tours on foot, by horse, or in an automobile.
• Go cycling along the beach or one of the other biking paths! OBX is extremely bike-friendly!

Check out more things to do here!

How to Legally Elope in NC

To get legally married in Outer Banks, NC, you need to apply for a North Carolina marriage license. You can get it from any county in North Carolina. Dare County is the most convenient! 

There’s no waiting period for your marriage license, and it’s valid for 60 days. North Carolina requires two witnesses to sign your marriage license, and as your elopement photographer, I’d be honored to be one of your witnesses. We can find another area visitor to help us out, or you can elope with your closest loved ones present, who can also serve as witnesses!

According to North Carolina’s marriage application website, your ceremony must be performed by a magistrate, minister, or any person authorized by their religious denomination or a federally recognized Indian Tribe.

My Outer Banks Elopement Packages

As your elopement photographer, I’m here to help with all the planning! From securing permits to logistics, I’ve got you covered. My happy place is taking care of all the details so you can focus on enjoying your unforgettable Outer Banks elopement. Let’s make your dream day stress-free and absolutely stunning! 

Check out my Outer Banks elopement packages! When you’re ready, reach out to me here, and let’s plan your big day together!